Let's talk about Love Languages!
2/18/2021
I decided to some searching on this Love Languages. I been seeing some people been talking about. Love Languages been out for at least 29 years. It been talk about since 1992. I have never heard about it until now. So I decided to do some searching and found some quizzes for single people, since that what I am. After doing some quizzes, I started to do some thinking and wonder am I that type of person. I know I am not that bad in relationships. Then again someone never really gave me the time or day to be the type of person that I should be to them, then again I think it because I never really dated someone that I can give my time to. I have always been someone mistress or someone camouflage until they find the person that they are really looking for and it not me.
When I took the quiz, there was some questions that I didn't like and some didn't fit me. After taking the quiz and I got my results, it claims that my primary love language is Quality time, it not like I already knew that since I did. But when it comes to Receiving gifts that was a big no no for me, I got a 0%, which I already knew that as well. They didn't have good questions for Acts of Service, which I got a 17%, which I know when I find someone I probably be better at it then the 17% that I got. Words of affirmation and Physical touch, I got 23% on both, but I can guarantee that it much larger percentage then the ones that they ask.
In reality, do I really need to take a quiz to actually know what my love languages is, no I don't. I probably going to be along for the rest of my life, because no one is out there for me, no one feels what I feel and also I am very stubborn. I got my heart broken more times then anybody and it actually pretty hard to find someone, for one thing, I don't fit the criteria of them. I am not what they are looking for. Knowing that these love languages actually exists should not be a reason to know what you can do for someone or for yourself. You should automatically know what type of quality you have and should know what you can do to someone. These quizzes are fun to do, but they don't declare the type of person I am and what I like to do with someone.
I love spending quality time with my special someone ( even when I find my special someone), I love physical touch at least I know that my person cares about me. I love words of affirmation at least my person is taking the time to talk to me, writing me, texting me. I wanna feel that I am wanted by my person. I wanna know that I am the first thing on their mind when they get up in the morning. I love acts of service because I love cooking for my person. I also like surprising my person with a home cook meal, even if we are together for a few months. I also like to help them with their chores so that way we can get done a lot quicker so I can spend time with them. My least favorite and wish it didn't exist is receiving gifts, this one is not my favorite, I do not like this one. I wish I can erase it, because it does not mean nothing. I probably get ask about this the reason why is I don't like receiving gifts is because I got a surprise that I wish wasn't true. The person that I dated for almost 6 years decided to cheat on me. So to the end of me talking about myself. What are your love languages?
What type of Love Languages do you used or try to used? Have you fallen flat on your love languages?
xoxo
Alexis
I decided to some searching on this Love Languages. I been seeing some people been talking about. Love Languages been out for at least 29 years. It been talk about since 1992. I have never heard about it until now. So I decided to do some searching and found some quizzes for single people, since that what I am. After doing some quizzes, I started to do some thinking and wonder am I that type of person. I know I am not that bad in relationships. Then again someone never really gave me the time or day to be the type of person that I should be to them, then again I think it because I never really dated someone that I can give my time to. I have always been someone mistress or someone camouflage until they find the person that they are really looking for and it not me.
When I took the quiz, there was some questions that I didn't like and some didn't fit me. After taking the quiz and I got my results, it claims that my primary love language is Quality time, it not like I already knew that since I did. But when it comes to Receiving gifts that was a big no no for me, I got a 0%, which I already knew that as well. They didn't have good questions for Acts of Service, which I got a 17%, which I know when I find someone I probably be better at it then the 17% that I got. Words of affirmation and Physical touch, I got 23% on both, but I can guarantee that it much larger percentage then the ones that they ask.
In reality, do I really need to take a quiz to actually know what my love languages is, no I don't. I probably going to be along for the rest of my life, because no one is out there for me, no one feels what I feel and also I am very stubborn. I got my heart broken more times then anybody and it actually pretty hard to find someone, for one thing, I don't fit the criteria of them. I am not what they are looking for. Knowing that these love languages actually exists should not be a reason to know what you can do for someone or for yourself. You should automatically know what type of quality you have and should know what you can do to someone. These quizzes are fun to do, but they don't declare the type of person I am and what I like to do with someone.
I love spending quality time with my special someone ( even when I find my special someone), I love physical touch at least I know that my person cares about me. I love words of affirmation at least my person is taking the time to talk to me, writing me, texting me. I wanna feel that I am wanted by my person. I wanna know that I am the first thing on their mind when they get up in the morning. I love acts of service because I love cooking for my person. I also like surprising my person with a home cook meal, even if we are together for a few months. I also like to help them with their chores so that way we can get done a lot quicker so I can spend time with them. My least favorite and wish it didn't exist is receiving gifts, this one is not my favorite, I do not like this one. I wish I can erase it, because it does not mean nothing. I probably get ask about this the reason why is I don't like receiving gifts is because I got a surprise that I wish wasn't true. The person that I dated for almost 6 years decided to cheat on me. So to the end of me talking about myself. What are your love languages?
What type of Love Languages do you used or try to used? Have you fallen flat on your love languages?
xoxo
Alexis
Fitness Fridays: Q & A
2/05/2021
1) How many time have you workout?
I only workout for only 3 days out of the week until my body is use to it.
2) When you workout early do you eat before or after?
Sometimes I eat before, and sometimes I will eat after, depending on how I am feeling.
3) What are your favorite healthy Recipe?
I sorta do not, I always eat a salad, but sometimes I would rather eat fruit. So No I don't really eat anything healthy.
4) What is your motivation?
My blog is my motivation
5) What are your fitness goals?
I would like to be slim and be proud that I got there.
6) How to get into Regular Fitness Routine?
I haven't really got there yet, I am still working on it.
7) What your secret for staying slim and healthy?
I am not. Still working on the goal.
8) What workouts routine have you seen the greatest result from?
I haven't yet. Still working on it. the only thing that I feel is pain.
9) What do you eat on a daily basis?
I eat mainly sometimes a salad or a fruit.
10) What workouts do you do to stay thin?
I do sit ups mostly
11) Do you ever have days when you just don't feel working out?
Yes, don't we all
12) What does fitness mean to you as a women?
We should be allow to do whatever a man is doing.
So what type of workouts are you doing to stat slim and healthy? Please comment below
xoxo
Alexis
When it comes to beauty products there something that could go wrong when finding the right ones for your skin. I always have products that did not go with my skin. So as I learned along the way is to put my skin at risk, So I did in order to know what products wont and which ones that don't. To tell you all, I have sensitive and acne prone skin, which is not good at all, because I have to be careful which products that I can use and which ones I can not. In order for me to know, I have to use all and put my skin at risk, which is not a good thing to do. I have never thought I would go thought this problem, but now I am a little older, I will. Let's take a peek of what beauty products that I absolutely love and the ones that made the list.
1) Olay Acne Medicine
2) Garnier Whole Blends Oats & Delicacy
3) St Ives Blemish Control
4) Gillette Satin Care Ultra Sensitive
5) Nature Boundy Hair, nails and skin
What are are your favorite beauty products. Please comment below
xoxo
Alexis
When it comes to beauty products there something that could go wrong when finding the right ones for your skin. I always have products that did not go with my skin. So as I learned along the way is to put my skin at risk, So I did in order to know what products wont and which ones that don't. To tell you all, I have sensitive and acne prone skin, which is not good at all, because I have to be careful which products that I can use and which ones I can not. In order for me to know, I have to use all and put my skin at risk, which is not a good thing to do. I have never thought I would go thought this problem, but now I am a little older, I will. Let's take a peek of what beauty products that I absolutely love and the ones that made the list.
1) Olay Acne Medicine
2) Garnier Whole Blends Oats & Delicacy
3) St Ives Blemish Control
4) Gillette Satin Care Ultra Sensitive
5) Nature Boundy Hair, nails and skin
What are are your favorite beauty products. Please comment below
xoxo
Alexis
1) How many time have you workout?
I only workout for only 3 days out of the week until my body is use to it.
2) When you workout early do you eat before or after?
Sometimes I eat before, and sometimes I will eat after, depending on how I am feeling.
3) What are your favorite healthy Recipe?
I sorta do not, I always eat a salad, but sometimes I would rather eat fruit. So No I don't really eat anything healthy.
4) What is your motivation?
My blog is my motivation
5) What are your fitness goals?
I would like to be slim and be proud that I got there.
6) How to get into Regular Fitness Routine?
I haven't really got there yet, I am still working on it.
7) What your secret for staying slim and healthy?
I am not. Still working on the goal.
8) What workouts routine have you seen the greatest result from?
I haven't yet. Still working on it. the only thing that I feel is pain.
9) What do you eat on a daily basis?
I eat mainly sometimes a salad or a fruit.
10) What workouts do you do to stay thin?
I do sit ups mostly
11) Do you ever have days when you just don't feel working out?
Yes, don't we all
12) What does fitness mean to you as a women?
We should be allow to do whatever a man is doing.
So what type of workouts are you doing to stat slim and healthy? Please comment below
xoxo
Alexis
Currently Craving: Quilted Handbags!
2/04/2021
When it comes to Quilted Handbags. I am in loved with them. When I see them, I think of the Chanel handbags. Well anyways, I like how they can flow with outfits, you can either wear them with casual wear or wear them with your outing wear or better yet when you go out on the town. There are plenty of Quilted Handbags from Kate Spade to Chanel. Some are high price and some are not, if you would like to buy one and can't afford one, there is always www.ebay.com, that where I got mine, since I am so in love with them. I decided to get mine on www.Ebay.com. Quilted Bags, are the one item to have in your closet. I know I would have them in my closet. They work for all seasons and they even come in many colors. So if you are like me or maybe want to know more about quilted handbags, please take a look on what I have.
1) Kate Spade
2) Rebecca Minkoff
3) Gucci
4) Steve Madden
5)Nine West
xoxo
Alexis
When it comes to Quilted Handbags. I am in loved
with them. When I see them, I think of the Chanel handbags. Well
anyways, I like how they can flow with outfits, you can either wear them
with casual wear or wear them with your outing wear or better yet when
you go out on the town. There are plenty of Quilted Handbags from Kate
Spade to Chanel. Some are high price and some are not, if you would like
to buy one and can't afford one, there is always www.ebay.com, that
where I got mine, since I am so in love with them. I decided to get mine
on www.Ebay.com. Quilted Bags, are the one item to have in your closet.
I know I would have them in my closet. They work for all seasons and
they even come in many colors. So if you are like me or maybe want to
know more about quilted handbags, please take a look on what I have.
1) Kate Spade
2) Rebecca Minkoff
3) Gucci
4) Steve Madden
5)Nine West
xoxo
Alexis
I may not know the correct way to lose weight, but I can insure you that the bad habits that we are doing are not good for our health, but we managed to do it anyways. I wont lecture you on how to get healthy or eat healthy. I'm just going to simply tell you on how to lose weight the correct way. But you might think it hard. Well it going to be, if you don't put in the work itself. It a working progress. There one thing that I know is that when you are trying to lose weight, you can't simply go and eat junk food and expect to lose weight. It does not work like that. You can't eat just a salad and expect to lose weight, it does not work like that either. It call eating healthy and doing the work that comes with it.
I simply created rules for how to lose weight the correct way. I am one of those people who don't listen when it comes to losing weight and don't listen when it comes to anything actually. I am stubborn as hell when it comes to people telling me what to do. I am also creating this blog post for me to. Why can't we all listen to each other and lose weight and start eating healthy together. When it comes to losing weight and eating healthy, would it be fun to have a buddy to help you stay on track with it all. I think it would be fun. Then maybe we all can get to out goals and be where we want to be. The rules that I have created are very simple steps that are very easy to follow and it going to be hard to do, because of our bad habits that we have.
1) Try to figure out what your bad habits are and try to focus your time on them and get rib of them. because they should not be welcome in your life. Get rib of them. As I repeat, get rib of them. Bad habits are like leeches that don't understand when to leave and when to stay away.
2) Start by putting good junk foods in your system, not that nasty kind that we all crave for. When it comes to junk food, we all crave for that sweet, melt in your mouth kind. But instead, why can't we start putting the good junk food in our system. Like for example, the ones that are made from fruit, with less sugar. Let start thinking of good protein.
3) Let just say never skip a meal, and never substitute a salad for a meal, that the biggest no no, that anyone can ever do.
4) Never substitute junk food for an actual meal, that will only cause you to strain yourself. I know cause I have done it. I know how it can be.
5) Always use caution when reading labels and make sure you do not have allergy's when it comes to certain foods. I know I do, I have Celiac disease. Which is one huge problem that I cannot deal with. But always take caution about what foods you put in your mouth.
6) Always keep track of your calories and also keep track of what you eat from breakfast to dinner and also snack time. For example, keep a planner for everything.
7) Always before each exercise routine that you are going to do, please make sure you do stretches first, to get you warm up. Then began each exercise. I would like to suggest one thing first, you should always consider getting a physical to see if there anything wrong with you.
8) Always drink water, before and after a workout.
How are you losing weight? Please share in the comments below.
xoxo Alexis
I may not know the correct way to lose weight, but I can insure you
that the bad habits that we are doing are not good for our health, but
we managed to do it anyways. I wont lecture you on how to get healthy or
eat healthy. I'm just going to simply tell you on how to lose weight
the correct way. But you might think it hard. Well it going to be, if
you don't put in the work itself. It a working progress. There one thing
that I know is that when you are trying to lose weight, you can't
simply go and eat junk food and expect to lose weight. It does not work
like that. You can't eat just a salad and expect to lose weight, it does
not work like that either. It call eating healthy and doing the work
that comes with it.
I simply created rules for how to lose weight
the correct way. I am one of those people who don't listen when it
comes to losing weight and don't listen when it comes to anything
actually. I am stubborn as hell when it comes to people telling me what
to do. I am also creating this blog post for me to. Why can't we all
listen to each other and lose weight and start eating healthy together.
When it comes to losing weight and eating healthy, would it be fun to
have a buddy to help you stay on track with it all. I think it would be
fun. Then maybe we all can get to out goals and be where we want to be.
The rules that I have created are very simple steps that are very easy
to follow and it going to be hard to do, because of our bad habits that
we have.
1) Try to figure out what your bad habits are and try to
focus your time on them and get rib of them. because they should not be
welcome in your life. Get rib of them. As I repeat, get rib of them. Bad
habits are like leeches that don't understand when to leave and when to
stay away.
2) Start by putting good junk foods in your system, not
that nasty kind that we all crave for. When it comes to junk food, we
all crave for that sweet, melt in your mouth kind. But instead, why
can't we start putting the good junk food in our system. Like for
example, the ones that are made from fruit, with less sugar. Let start
thinking of good protein.
3) Let just say never skip a meal, and never substitute a salad for a meal, that the biggest no no, that anyone can ever do.
4)
Never substitute junk food for an actual meal, that will only cause you
to strain yourself. I know cause I have done it. I know how it can be.
5)
Always use caution when reading labels and make sure you do not have
allergy's when it comes to certain foods. I know I do, I have Celiac
disease. Which is one huge problem that I cannot deal with. But always
take caution about what foods you put in your mouth.
6) Always keep
track of your calories and also keep track of what you eat from
breakfast to dinner and also snack time. For example, keep a planner for
everything.
7) Always before each exercise routine that you are
going to do, please make sure you do stretches first, to get you warm
up. Then began each exercise. I would like to suggest one thing first,
you should always consider getting a physical to see if there anything
wrong with you.
8) Always drink water, before and after a workout.
How are you losing weight? Please share in the comments below.
xoxo Alexis
Term Tuesday: Captivate Style's
2/02/2021
When I first learn about blog names, I basically pick just anything. But after a few years of getting to know the blog world again, I decided to change my blog and make it permanent. So that when I decided to rename my blog to Captivate Style's, because it has a meaning that everyone should love and want. Captivate the skin your in. which means you should love the skin you are in. It the only skin you will ever get. My blog mean the world to me and my blog is my baby. So here is the definition to the words, Captivate and Style and the main word, Captivate Styles.
Captivate: attract and hold the interest and attention of; charm
Style: a distinctive appearance, typically determined by the principles according to which something is designed. a particular design of clothing. a way of arranging the hair.
Captivate Styles: Here you will get the insider look on Fashion, Beauty and Lifestyle from blogger herself Alexis Marie.
What do you have that means the most to you? Please share in the comments below.
xoxo
Alexis
When I first learn about blog names, I basically pick just anything. But after a few years of getting to know the blog world again, I decided to change my blog and make it permanent. So that when I decided to rename my blog to Captivate Style's, because it has a meaning that everyone should love and want. Captivate the skin your in. which means you should love the skin you are in. It the only skin you will ever get. My blog mean the world to me and my blog is my baby. So here is the definition to the words, Captivate and Style and the main word, Captivate Styles.
Captivate: attract and hold the interest and attention of; charm
Style: a distinctive appearance, typically determined by the principles according to which something is designed. a particular design of clothing. a way of arranging the hair.
Captivate Styles: Here you will get the insider look on Fashion, Beauty and Lifestyle from blogger herself Alexis Marie.
What do you have that means the most to you? Please share in the comments below.
xoxo
Alexis
Letter From Alexis: Sweet Heart February
2/01/2021
First thing first, February Style Tips. I will also show a mixer of pre-winter to pre-spring style tips again, like last year. I will also be doing some delicious treats for Valentines Day. I also have some Valentines Date night Fashion Looks for you. I think this is going to be a fun Valentines then it was last year. I also have some Healthy Recipes to Detox Recommendations for you all, which is going to be fun to make and also a fun thing to actually try. This is going to be a no brainier that I might do or not to do, I was thinking about making little heart macrons for Valentines, but don't know. I don't really want to say much. Except the fact give you hints from time to time. So I hope you had fun reading this post and getting ready for what February has to offer.
Please let me know in the comments below what would you like to see this month?
xoxo
Alexis
First thing first, February Style Tips. I will also show a mixer of pre-winter to pre-spring style tips again, like last year. I will also be doing some delicious treats for Valentines Day. I also have some Valentines Date night Fashion Looks for you. I think this is going to be a fun Valentines then it was last year. I also have some Healthy Recipes to Detox Recommendations for you all, which is going to be fun to make and also a fun thing to actually try. This is going to be a no brainier that I might do or not to do, I was thinking about making little heart macrons for Valentines, but don't know. I don't really want to say much. Except the fact give you hints from time to time. So I hope you had fun reading this post and getting ready for what February has to offer.
Please let me know in the comments below what would you like to see this month?
xoxo
Alexis
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