Ask Alexis: How to gain Confidence?
3/11/2019
We know all that confidence is not an easy task to take on. I know that I am not that much confidence. I always been that way. But when I do gain the confidence I always turn out to be a bitch, it simple for me and a lot easier to be one. When I get ask about being confidence, this one is hard for me to answer, because I am not confidence, because I always get judge and label for being something that I'm not, which I am getting sick of. I know when I walk, everyone tells me I walk with confidence, I don't believe it.
Dear Alexis
I am writing to you to ask if you knew how to be confidence. I am a shy girl and who looking for more confidence and I was wondering if you would know any tips on how to be? thanks Shy Girl.
To be honest, I am shy to sometimes, because I don't really like talking to people. I am not very much social. It just who I am, which I need to change that, but I think It fine. But anyways, to be honest, I think there are no tips to gain confidence. Confidence is a stand alone thing, where you need to come out on your own and break the shell that is covering your shell. I suggest start talking to people that you normally don't talk to and practice picture taking, which I have problems with this one. I may take beautiful photos, but I am not confidence enough in order to practice them.
I think you need to break the shell that your in and just go for it. Being confidence is everything that is going to make your life easier. I just hope that you are able to just go up to people that talk to them, like for example, if you are in high school, you can easily go up to some of your school mates and ask them how is your day going or make a conversation, just remember if they walk away, they are more shy then you, because they are only sticking to one clique, so remember it not you, it them. They walk away, find another group, talk about a game that you seen, say what did you think of the game on Friday or something like that. When you do that, you are on the verge of breaking out of your shell. If you are an adult, do the same thing. confidence is something that is on it own and it up to you to break from it. I know I need to work on mine, which I am doing that now. Maybe we all should do it together. Please let me know how it turns out for you.
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xoxo
Alexis
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